La Belle Vie: French standards for cheese, manners, and music

Genevieve Mansfield
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La Belle Vie: French standards for cheese, manners, and music
Different packs of raw cow's milk "Camembert de Normandie" pictured in February 2020 (Photo by Ludovic Marin / AFP)

From cheese etiquette to the best day-trips out of Paris and the French words you did not know you were already using, our new weekly newsletter La Belle Vie offers you an essential starting point for eating, talking, drinking and living like a French person.


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I must admit that I am no wine expert. But I am a sucker for an interesting-looking label on a bottle of wine, and I live near a cave called the Liquiderie that boasts all of the new, trendy beverages - from locally brewed beers to "natural" wines. The artistic labels are plentiful.

Every time I enter the store, the owner does his best to sum up everything new that is in stock, and what they might pair nicely with.


Here is where I must also admit that sometimes I will look for the vin naturel designation simply because it feels like the "nice" wine to bring to a dinner party. Extra points if it's an orange wine.

If you are at all like me, then you might also be interested in actually learning a bit about organic wine. Is it all it's cracked up to be? Does it really have a unique taste, and what should I look out for when buying it? 

Bio, natural, biodynamic: 5 things to know about organic French wine

And regardless of whether or not you've joined the natural wine craze, you'll probably sip something while munching on cheese and charcuterie during apéro. 

Cheese boards are popular everywhere, even outside of France, but they are so popular in France that you can even order a ready-made "boite-apéro" that is perfectly suited for your early-evening plans.

However, if you are looking to lean into the satisfaction that comes from building your own cheese board, then you'll want to know a bit of cheese etiquette ahead of time.

While you may have already heard the advice to divide your cheese into three categories (hard, soft, and blue/goat cheese) there are several other tips, like what accompagnements to use and how to store the fromage authentically. 

Best Briehaviour: Your guide to French cheese etiquette

Though you might be scratching your head, wondering whether it genuinely matters how the cheese is stored, or whether mixing up vous with tu will really get you in trouble. Just like in any culture, some "rules" are more important than others, and of course it depends on the person or group you are dealing with.

This can be a bit tricky for anglophones, particularly when it comes to language, because English (both written and spoken) tends to be less formal.


Style and dress can also be a source of confusion - you may have heard your American friends living in France claim to have the telepathic ability to distinguish when a random person on the street is also American. While they probably do not get it right 100 percent of the time, clothing can serve as a clue.

Here is what you need to know about la politesse:

Are the French really obsessed with manners and etiquette?

As discussed above, culture can be a tricky thing, particularly when you expect there to be overlap. Both the French language and culture have blended into anglophone ones over the last several centuries, and vice versa. 

In France, this has been a bit of a controversy in recent years, with the Académie Française (the official gatekeepers of the French language) decrying anglicisms and the use of English words in French. With the rise of the internet and streaming services, the languages seem to mix more than ever before, so much so that French companies have been known to advertise using English words.

But what about the reverse - when French is used in English? There are many terms - some you might use on a daily basis - that come from our French friends. You have probably déjà vu some of these terms: 

17 French words we’ve stolen and reinvented in English

And when you are in France, you can test out some of your pre-existing French vocabulary - perhaps while doing a bit of travelling. 

If you are visiting France, chance are you have taken in Paris - in 2022, the French capital was ranked as the second most visited city in the world. 


But whether you're visiting or you live here, sometimes it's nice to get out of the city and there are loads of interesting places to visit that are within easy travel distance of Paris.

The Local put together a guide for all of the best (and easiest) day trips outside of the city:

Ten of the best day trips out of Paris

Finally, on your road trip or train ride outside of Paname, you'll want some tunes to jam to, of course! Why not make it a fun learning experience?

Build your travel playlist with these French musicians to test your listening skills, and simply enjoy some music you might not have been exposed to before:

The 10 best singers to listen to if you’re learning French


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