‘My dogs barely noticed I’d been gone’ – the best way to care for your pets when you’re away

We all love going on holiday, but those of us with pets may worry about what to do with our fur babies when we’re away. Do we book them into a kennel, hire pet walkers or ask friends or neighbours to check up on them and feed them daily? Do we try a housesitting service instead?

'My dogs barely noticed I'd been gone' - the best way to care for your pets when you're away

The build-up to going on holiday is usually an exciting period. Choosing books to read, prepping streaming devices, checking out restaurants and things to do at your holiday destination – all activities that heighten your anticipation of the fun times ahead.

But there’s one aspect of holiday planning that makes us pet owners a little blue – what are we going to do with our furry (or feathery or fishy) friends? 

Denise Baxendall, who lives in southern Spain, has experience of all the possible ways to keep pets safe and happy when she’s away. 

“We have two rescue dogs, one of whom is a little bit complicated. She is quite nervous. And it takes her a while to sort of be comfortable with people. And so my main concern is that she is settled and that she’s not stressed by us not being there. So for me, kennels are just not suitable.

“They’re also very expensive, especially now that some of them call themselves ‘pet hotels’. You also hear awful stories about dogs getting very stressed and losing hair and eating their tails and all sorts of horrible things. And then there’s kennel cough, which is sometimes unavoidable because there are all these dogs in such close proximity. And even at the best kennels they can’t dedicate two or three hours to walking each dog and spend time cuddling them sitting in front of the telly. It’s just not possible.”

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Denise Baxendell with her dogs

What about friends and family – why not persuade them to help out?

Denise is wary about using this tactic. “It always causes guilt and tension. Are you impinging on their time? Are you inconveniencing them? And they can often only pop round to feed the animals and, in dogs’ case, give them a quick walk to make sure they go to the toilet. The dogs won’t get proper walks and won’t have any long-term company. And what if your dog is a diabetic for example and needs regular medication? Sadly, it’s the same problem with pet walkers – they’re in and out of the house in a flash, leaving the animals alone. So this really isn’t an option if you’re planning to go away for more than a day.”

Jenny Newman, who lives in the French Pyrenees, is a house-sitter and pet owner who’s been on both sides of the house-sitting fence. “Asking friends and family is okay if it suits both parties. Personally, I don’t have anyone to ask who lives anywhere near close enough to me, but even if I did I’m not sure I’d feel happy imposing on their free time.”

“There’s only one sensible option, really, when you have to leave your pets and that’s using a house-sitting service, such as TrustedHousesitters,” says Jenny.

Denise agrees. “All the problems and complications I’ve mentioned about kennels, family and pet walkers, none of those come into play when it comes to house-sitters. The pets get to stay in their own home, they do not have their routines disturbed, they go for long walks, and they get cuddles. And you, as a human, have someone you trust looking after your pet and your home, so you can enjoy your time away!”

Services such as TrustedHousesitters work by matching pet owners with house sitters – who do not charge for their time – to keep your pets safe and happy at home whenever you’re away. Both owners and sitters pay an annual fee to be part of the network. For sitters, the arrangement offers the opportunity to travel and see places without paying for accommodation.

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Those that might be wary of letting a stranger or strangers look after their house need not worry, says Denise.

“If you use a site such as TrustedHousesitters, you know the sitters have been checked and double-checked.”

Jenny Newman and one of her dogs

TrustedHousesitters ensure potential sitters are thoroughly ID-checked and vetted, a comprehensive system that is complemented by ratings and reviews left by other owners. Owners and sitters pay an annual fee to use the service and, on certain plans, for extra peace of mind, TrustedHousesitters offer owners and sitters insurance cover against property damage, theft, and sitter accidents, as well as a free 24/7 vet advice line.

“Having been involved on both sides of house-sitting for many years, I know that pets love their owners, but they also very quickly come to love their house-sitters as well,” says Jenny. “If they’re with an animal lover, they are relaxed and happy and don’t miss their owners or get stressed by their absence. Obviously, they’re usually delighted to have you home but when I recently returned from being away they seemed to barely notice that I’d not been there and were very happy snuggled up to the sitters! But that’s good of course – it means they’ve been well looked after.”

For Denise, the benefits of using a house-sitter service are obvious. “I think it’s peace of mind. You know these sitters are who they say they are, that they’ve been checked out and that you have the ability to look through all their various reviews and ratings on the website. And if you take the insurance options they offer, you have a pretty bulletproof way of getting your pets and your home looked after.”

There are other benefits, too, according to Denise. “We have built up relationships with some of our sitters. So we do have people coming back to house-sit multiple times and we have become friends. And that’s really lovely.”

Jenny sums up the attractions of using a house-sitter. “With a house-sitter, you have somebody that wants to be in your home and wants to look after your pets – they are specifically coming to your house to do that for you. It’s the perfect solution to looking after your animal. And you get to totally enjoy your break, knowing your pets and home are being looked after.”

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How to adopt a pet from a French animal shelter

Around 300,000 pets are abandoned every year in France, many of them during the summer months. So if you're looking for a pet there are many lovely cats and dogs in shelters looking for a good home - here's how to go about it.

How to adopt a pet from a French animal shelter

Where to look

French animal welfare charity the Société Protectrice des Animaux (SPA) is an excellent place to start – it currently lists nearly 4,500 animals available for adoption. 

But there are lots of other smaller, local organisations – it may be worthwhile dropping in to see a local vet as they will generally know of local groups seeking homes for abandoned pets.

There will be paperwork

First-time buyers of cats or dogs have to sign a ‘certificate of commitment and understanding’ before they will be allowed to buy an animal, and the same applies to those looking to adopt. 

After the signed document is delivered to the authorities, future owners have seven days to change their mind – the idea is to prevent people from ‘impulsively’ buying or adopting pets only to abandon them later. 

The SPA, certainly, demands that would-be adopters are of legal age and are willing to take part in a “responsible adoption process”.

These things take time – as you should expect for a commitment that can last more than a decade. As the SPA website says, it seeks to ensure “that each decision is carefully considered and that the adopted animal matches its new family and way of life”.

The process may include home visits, interviews and discussions to help adopters find the animal to which they are best suited – older people may not cope well with an energetic puppy, for example.

READ ALSO What you need to know about owning a dog in France

Shelter animals

Some welfare organisations ensure their animals spend some time with ‘foster families’ until they are adopted. This means that the organisation has a pretty good idea how that animal is likely to behave when it gets to its new adopted home.

It is more difficult to judge an animal’s character if it has been kept in a pen in a shelter.

It will cost money

A financial contribution will most likely be requested by the organisation from which you are adopting. The sum will depend on the age and type of animal being adopted. 

The SPA, for example, asks for a donation to cover vets’ fees of between €250 and €300 for a dog, depending on its age, and €150 for a cat or a kitten.

Another well-known animal welfare organisation in France, Les Amis des Animaux, has a slightly different scale of fees covering the cost of chipping, vaccinations – including rabies/passport in mature animals, sterilisation, worming, et cetera. 

READ ALSO What you need to know about microchipping your pet in France

What else you need to know

Under French law, pet dogs – and cats and ferrets – over a certain age must be identified and registered on a national database. 

The animal must be identifiable by a tattoo or microchip – the latter is the most common method these days – that is registered on the Identification des carnivores domestiques (I-CAD) database

The procedure to insert the microchip, or ink the tattoo, must be carried out by an approved professional. The procedure should be done by a vet and costs between €40 and €70, the shelter will tell you whether your new pet already has a microchip or not.

You might not believe it if you have walked along certain streets in Paris, but you can be fined if you fail to pick up after your pet. 

The standard fine is €68, but the mayors of some towns have imposed stricter rules in the street, in parks, gardens and other public spaces. 

The French government’s Service Public website lists other rules regarding the health and wellbeing of pets. Read it here.